Mom Update

Mom finally goes home today. Her back surgery on November 8th was successful but the rehab has been very slow. She spent the first week at Parkview North in the Orthopedic Hospital. She was thinking of going home after that, but she wasn't rehabbing that well so decided to to to the Rehab Hospital at Lutheran. She has been there for two weeks. I have been stopping after work almost everyday to see how she was doing. She told me how far she was walking and stuff but I never actually SAW her walk. By the time I got there at 5:00 she was always in bed and tired. Then earlier this week I finally saw her walk down the hallway and get out of and into bed. I feel better now having actually seen her get around pretty good with not much pain. I was afraid that she was telling me how well she was doing, but kinda exaggerating... she wasn't. Her arthritic hands make grabbing and pulling alot more difficult.

Most of this week I have been doing things to get her house ready for her. I pulled off the shower doors for her and installed a new show head with a hose that she can use easier. A couple things that were needed I was dreading. She told me that she needed a ramp to get into the house. She still can't quite make the 4 1/2 inch rise from the garage to the house. I was racking my brains on how to make one from scratch. And I pretty much had a design figured out. I of course called on the expertise of my father-in-law to help since I only had one day to put this thing together since I just found out about it Wednesday and needed it Friday afternoon. The other thing was needing a railing or handle for the shower that she could pull her self up on. She has a fiberglass insert so the thought of drilling through the fiberglass would pretty much make that a permanent fixture of the bathroom. But I caught a lucky break on those two items.... While running around yesterday for work I stopped by Debrands to get the nurses some candy for being so nice to mom, and then I stopped by James Medical rental place. I was able to find and rent a metal ramp, so no "SHOP" class for me and my father in law. Then I was able to find a handle for the shower that works with extra strong suction cups so no drilling into the shower insert. WHEW..

So tonight she will be home and with her dogs. She is having a bunch of friends spend day and night with her in case she needs anything. Monday Aunt Suzie comes to town and is going to spend as long as it takes until mom is able to get around on her own. Of course being ever inventive, I am taking our baby monitor over to mom's so if she needs help, they can hear her in other rooms. I thought that was a good idea. I think she will really enjoy being home finally. I know my uncle can't wait for her to get home so he can stop watching the dogs. Now we just have to make sure she keeps up on her walking and exercising!!! No Lallygagging!!

Saturday Thing

Saturday morning I woke up at 5:30am and out the door by 5:45am. This was in an attempt to do something or get something for Jenny for Christmas so I will post that adventure after Christmas...

bedroom (where the Q's are sleeping) above the garage and almost directly able the garage door opener. The last time the Q's were in town both Jen and I had to go to work at 6:00am in the morning which meant two times for the garage door to go up. We didn't realize at the time how much noise and vibration went through the floor of the 4After my morning "thing" I decided to head to Target on the way home, just in case they restocked any of the items that I wanted overnight. Much to my surprise they did restock the v-smile game so I was 2 for 4 with my purchases. I asked about the TV's and the phones, but I was told they did not get any more in. Crap. But I was happy to get the game for the kids. As I am pulling up to the house I debated on opening the garage door or not. You see.. the 4thth bedroom when the garage door was opened. It wasn't until later on when I was sitting in the room when Jen came home from work when I realized how much it scared the poop out of you. So this trip I made sure to park outside both Friday and Saturday morning so not to use the garage door opener, but I figured it was 9:00am and with 3 kids they would surely be up.... nope... But they sure were after I opened the door. So more visiting and kids playing. Finally the Q's got stuff together to run out and visit with family in town and Jen headed off to work (again). William let me take a nap in the afternoon while Andrew was down for his nap. I had to wake Andrew up from his 3+ hour nap and we headed out the door to visit mom at the hospital. Andrew found a vending machine that sold animal crackers, so every time we visit he has to get a bag. He doesn't eat them that much, he just likes to see the money go in and the crackers fall from the shelf. After visiting for a while, they again got fussy so we headed out.
We ran over and visited Jen at the mall. After terrorizing Disney for a while we ran down to terrorize Andrews jewelers where my brother works now. The boys found out they have M&M dispensers and were constantly trying to get more. Andrew doesn't really like them that much, but the held a couple of them in his hand. Of course the chocolate melted and he ended up fingering the glass display cases with his greasy hands, but hey, it gives my brother something to do. The boys and I head home just missing the Q's visiting Jen at Disney. When the Q's get home we quickly put everyone to bed since Keith is especially tired and cranky, and they have a long drive on Sunday. Again the parents visit till the wee hours .

Sunday - Everyone finally starts stirring around 8:30 or so. After the Q collective grabbed some breakfast they pack up the van for a road trip to Michigan and then home to NY. It was alot of fun to have them around for the weekend. There were no major problems or meltdowns (a few minor ones). Everyone played nice together, including the kids. What is so fun about the Q's visit is that if they need something or want something they just get it. I don't have to worry about being a "host" all weekend, so that is relaxing. I know that we defiantly owe the Q's a couple visits in the near future. We will have to see what happens next year with the baby and all.

Back Friday

I usually avoid the stores like the plague on this weekend, but my mom and I saw a couple things in the Target ad that would be worth the hassle. Jen finds out that I am going to attempt to shop and adds to the list. So I have a total of 4 things to get. Two things for mom for presents, a v-smile game for William and to look at a new digital camera for me. I set the alarm for 5:30 with the attempt to get to Target by 6:00am-ish. I figure if I slept through the alarm that it wouldn't be any big deal. Of course not getting to bed until almost 2:00am made that a huge possibility. So the first I hear the alarm is 6:00am. I get up, throw on my clothes and a hat and head out the door. Target it not the far of a drive for me (thank God) so I am there at about 6:15. As I pull into the parking lot, it is filled all the way to the McDonalds parking lot. I find a spot in this little known side parking lot next to the store and head in. It is a madhouse. There are no carts at all available. Of course the biggest crowd is back in electronic where I want to go as well. All along the way they have pallets fulls of merchandise at pretty good prices, but I am there for 4 things only and to get out. I fight my way to the back of the store past people with carts (I don't know how they are able to maneuver through that crowd) and past the display with $4 DVD's. The first thing I look for is mom's items. A TV and cordless phones. Everything near the TV's is gone but I hear that they have another pallet in the Men's dept, so I head back over there... nothing...crap I am 0 for 1. I head to the cordless phone area and there is a huge hole where the phones were.... crap I am 0 for 2. I head to the v-smile area so see a bare shelf...crap I am 0 for 3. I go up to the counter to ask about the digital camera where the guy working the counter picks one of the top of a HUGE pile behind the counter.. so I am 1 for 4. I decide to walk all over the store just in case they have stacked the other stuff I needed someplace else. That and occasionally they would wheel out more merchandise, so I decided to hang out in case they brought more out. I saw that someone had one of those TV's in her cart and asked if it was the last one. She told me it wasn't, but she did see the last one go a little after 6:00am. While I was walking around I notice that there is a huge line at the back of the store. I decided to see what they were waiting to get (and to see if I wanted one too) and soon realize that this is the line to the checkout at the FRONT of the store. Crap. Is waiting in this line really worth a $84 digital camera. But I remembered that they were checking people out back in electronics and there were only like 4 or 5 people in line. So I head back and get checked out pretty quick. Overall I would have to say I have done Black Friday once, and unless there is something I REALLY REALLY REALLY want, or able to get a good deal on, I won't be doing that again.
After I left the store I decided to head up to grab some Tom's Doughnuts at the Higher Grounds coffee house on Dupont. I grabbed a dozen and headed home and waited for everyone else to wake up. After breakfast and general merriment, the Q's packed up and left to visit some friends in town. Jen had to go into work. And I just stayed around the house. We decided to have a get together with friends that night, so I threw together some of Carrie's cookies while Andrew was down for his nap. Around 8:00 or so Jeff and Paula showed up. Then Kevin and Lisa (who were also in town) showed up. So we sat around and visited while the kids ran all over the house. We finally got kids to bed around 10:30 again and the party kinda broke up after that too. Jen got home around 11:30, so we ended up sitting around and visiting till 1:30am again. I was planning on doing something early Saturday morning so again this was a good idea. Next... Saturday Thing

THANKSgiving 2007

whoooooooooooooo I need a nap.....

Where to begin.....

Thursday - Thanksgiving - We woke up in the morning and worked on getting the boys ready as well as last minute cleanup for the Q Collectives visit. We attempted to get to the in-laws at Noon, but it was more like 12:30 before we got there and we were the first one's there. At this point I just try to find a place to stay out of the way. I am there to help, but I figure one less person in the kitchen the better. The boys were having fun running around the house and were behaving themselves so I didn't have to worry about chasing them this year. Slowly people start showing up to lunch and I sit and watch the football game and visit with some of the relatives occasionally venturing into the kitchen for a snack. I am sitting there watching TV when "the brat" shows up. If you don't recall from last year this little spawn of satin made thanksgiving stressful for me last year. Jen and I just kinda looked at each when he showed up and had a little bit of a laugh. Overall the food was delicious. The turkey was the most tender, mouth watering turkey that I had had in years. Everything else was very tasty... almost. My mother-in-law has serious gravy issues. She just cannot make a good gravy. Usually she just can't get it to thicken, but this year I don't know what happened but it was pretty bad. Of course I find this out after dousing my mashed potatoes and turkey in it, Crap. So I am sitting there and eating when I see the kids go running outside with my son running up to me asking to go outside. I tell him we will go out in a minute as soon as I finish eating my meal. He then of course goes out into the garage and I see him a minute later running outside. Darn Kid, but luckily I was almost finished. So I grab my coat and head outside so I don't leave him alone with the "brat". The Brat and brother and sister climb up this pretty steep hill outside the in-laws house to play, but I decided not to let William go up there since I know there are hidden tree stumps and other stuff underneath the fallen leaves. I decided again to ignore the brat, and much to my surprise the brat's sister started talking to me and was a very nice little girl. She wanted to help out with Andrew when he came out too. Actually she wanted to carry him around but he is much to heavy for that to happen. So I ran around with the kids while the brat was at the top of the hill and everything was right with the world. That's the way the afternoon pretty much ended. We came back inside for dessert and more football. Around 6:00 we packed the family up and headed for the Rehab hospital at Lutheran to visit my mom who is still recovering from her back surgery. (She is doing pretty good and scheduled to come home this Friday.) After visiting for a while the boys were getting cranky so we decided to head for home. Just before I left my mom we talked about a couple of things that we saw in the Target ad for the black Friday sale. I usually avoid the stores all weekend, but I decided that if I happened to wake up that I would give the black Friday shopping experience a try. I had no clue. I ended up actually setting my alarm to get up. After we got home we were kind of settling in, but we knew the Q's were on the way to the house. Around 8:00 or so they finally arrived. Let the fun begin. All of the kids were having a blast running all over the house and playing with each other. The adults sat around the table visiting in the middle of the carnage. We finally started putting kids to bed around 10:30pm or so (way past bedtime). Last year Keith and Mary slept in the pull out couch downstairs but this year Keith found the room a little too scary so Mary got the room to herself. John, Carrie, and Izzy got a roommate. After putting the kids to bed we ended up sitting around and eating and drinking till at least 1:30am which was probably not a good idea since I was planning on getting up at 5:30am, but hey it's an experience. Next.... Black Friday....

Quiz Answer

Well I have either stumped people about what movie the Mustang was in or no one really wants to play. The movie was Innerspace with Dennis Quaid and Martin Short and Meg Ryan (pictured behind the car). It was a Speilberg picture so it was pretty mainstream. Jen and I talked about the movie and could recall dialog and names of characters. I just remember the car. That's why she is my Lobster (Friends reference)

Hoosier Pie Recipe

One of my main recipes for the holiday season is Hoosier Pie. It's like a Pecan or Derby Pie that has been in the family for years and I took it upon myself to make this pie, buckeyes, and grandma's Christmas cookies every year. We are having a carry-in here at work tomorrow and I was going to make a pie. Jen and I looked for my recipe and couldn't find it. I can't believe that I lost it. I would just get the recipe from my mom, but she is laid up in the hospital for another week to 10 days so who knows where it is in her house. Luckily I sent the recipe to my step mom a year or two ago, and thank God she is more organized than I am. I decided to post it on my blog so I would always have it on-line. Much like Carrie's fantastic cookie recipe that I have had to reprint a couple times off her blog when I loose the hard copy. So here it is

Hoosier Pie

1/4 cup butter
1 cup sugar
3 eggs beaten
3/4 cup light corn syrup
1 tsp vanilla
1/4 tsp salt
1/2 cup chocolate chips
2 tbsp Bourbon
1/2 cup chopped pecans

Cream butter, beat in sugar gradually. Add eggs, syrup, vanilla and salt, blend well. Stir in chocolate chips, pecans and Bourbon. Pour into unbaked pie shell and bake 40-45 minutes at 375.

I like to refrigerate the pie after it has cooled. It helps the pie set up and get a little more firm in the middle. Usually serve with whipped cream on the top. This is a really rich pie and the taste of bourbon is pretty subtle and alot gets burned off so don't worry about it tasting like a bourbon pie.

Next I post my buckeye recipe..... Enjoy

Why Jen is my Lobster

You know. There are a few things that happen that prove that Jen and I were made for each other. We share the same amount of geekyness and have a phychotic, no, that would be psychic connection with each other. Just when I think I can pull out a little bit of way out trivia, she knows exactly what I am talking about. The other day we were pulling into Kroger and I saw that someone had a real nice late 60's mustang fastback sitting at the gas station. This triggered a memory that I had seen the same mustang only a convertible in the local Wheels and Deals. I made the comment to Jen that I had seen the car in the auto magazine and it reminded me of the movie....

Wait....

Let's have fun.....

Here is the picture of the car from the movie....














Name that movie... Let's see how many other geeks are out there.

She knew all about the movie. It's not like it wasn't a main release film like "Bad Taste" (darn you Jeff, that's 91 minutes of my life I will miss), it's just obscure. What surprises me is that she has seen this movie many times but never has seen a classic like "Jaws". With me it's all about the car, I think with her it's about the star of the movie......

I feel the need....

We finally have DSL at home!!!! I don't know how but I finally talked Jen into getting DSL for the house. A couple selling points is that its only $5 more than we are currently paying per month for dial up, we didn't have to worry about tying up a phone line, and the kids are starting to play alot more on the computer. It's one of those questions that we couldn't answer.... We don't really use the Internet that much at home, so it is worth the extra money, but then there is the question if we would use it more if it was easier and faster. We will find out...but I am thinking we will use it alot more now. Went a little crazy and go the wireless router too. I messed with it a little bit Wednesday night but couldn't get it to work, but Jen got it running on Thursday, but not the wireless. I got that working last night. I am going to look into web cams so I can set something up with my dad for maybe a video conference once a week to visit with him and the kids. But in looking around there are different types of web cams and some have audio (I thought they all had audio) and the services like Yahoo and IM are video only (I think). I never payed that much attention to the technology and I have questions. Looks like a trip to Best Buy (darn... he he). Maybe set up a web cam thing with the Q's so Jen and Carrie can yap. Also, now if we miss a show during the week, alot of them are replayed on websites so we can catch them later on. I also need to put together one more computer for the kids to play with and will stop messing with the other ones, but I need some ram. Brother can you spare some Ram??????

Long Day

Yesterday my mom went in for surgery for her back. She has had back and hip problems for years now, but finally decided to get it taken care of. The surgery involves putting in a metal bar and hardware to decompress some of the vertebrae. She had to get to the hospital at 5:30am with surgery at 7:30. I wake up yesterday thinking that if I get there around 6:00ish I would have a chance to visit before she goes in. Also, I try to drag out what time I leave the house hoping that the sound of the shower and me leaving the house won't wake the kids up. NOPE. As soon as I walk down the hall William wakes up and won't go back to sleep. I figure the more I argue with him the better chance of waking up his brother so I take him downstairs. Jen isn't too happy to see him awake at 6:00am either. So I grab my stuff and head out the door. Knowing the surgery will be 3 hours I threw together a backpack with a book and DVD player with movies. I head to the Orthopedic hospital of Parkview North in a pretty good snowstorm.... yes snow storm. Nothing sticking to the ground but depressing non the less. I am not real sure where to go and I drive toward a door for the Orthopedic center, but I noticed that when I turned it says "construction traffic only" and go through two red cones. I figure this is just the road they want the heavy machinery going down. As I drive down this "road" I feel the car drop around 8 inches into a dirt road. Oops. I turn around and head back to the main drag (of course hitting the back bumper on the now eye level curb). I finally get to the hospital and see my brother and uncle in the waiting room where they are waiting while they prep mom some more. So a little bit of visiting and she is wheeled away for surgery around 7:00. She tells me that her doctor's name is McGee so I am planning on seeing an Irishman or Scott and was a little surprised to see a black doctor. He's the best in Fort Wayne, I just assumed with the last name of McGee he would look different. So mom gets wheeled into Surgery and we go out to the waiting room. With 3 hours to kill I figure I can sneak away and help Jen take the Jeep to be serviced, so I take off. That was quite the adventure to get all the kids together and arranged while Jen took her shower and then drive across town, drop the Jeep off, transfer car seats, and drive across town again. You would think that 3 hours would be enough, but it wasn't. On a side note: Odaniel's called Jen with a laundry list of repairs for the Jeep that totalled near $3000 to fix everything. I told her to have stuff fixed that would pose a safety risk and we will go looking for a new minivan this weekend, crap. That was a task we were going to try and put off until later next year. Anyway I get back to the hospital and my brother and uncle are already back talking to the doctor so I walk into the room just as they are walking out...crap... But good news everything went as expected and the surgery took less time than expected. He told us it would be another 3 hours in recovery and she would get moved up into a room. So my Uncle took off to grab something to eat and take care of the dogs and my brother took off to go to a job interview. I pulled out the portable DVD player and watched a little bit of a RUSH concert then changed over to Ghostbusters. My uncle showed back up and we watched the movie on the player. At around 4 hours after surgery (an hour past the time she should be in a room) I decided to start asking what was going on. The told us that she lost alot of blood and if her blood pressure stayed the same she would be moved to a room, but if it went lower she would be moved to ICU. So I go and talk to this old guy working the patient desk. He is a slow lumbering old guy. I just called him "lurch". He told us that all he knew she was still in recovery. About 2 minutes later he comes up to us and tells us she is in her room. Either it was a coincidence that I had just asked or someone forgot to tell Lurch. So we go up and mom is pretty out of it. She wakes up a couple times to talk to us and have us call her friends to tell her about the surgery. Dan and I just spent the next 4 hours up in her room talking and watching TV while mom napped with her "Magic Button" medicine dispenser next to her. Dan and I did run across the street for dinner at Culvers which was good but expensive. I took off around 8 to go home and help put the boys to bed. Of course I came home to find out that Andrew has just puked all over the place so Jen had to clean that. Put the boys down, played on the computer, and went to bed. It was a long day, but mom seems to be doing pretty good. Now the long road to rehab and alot of crying and pain for her, but hopefully it will make her feel better in the long run.

Hectic Halloween

Halloween was NUTS !!!!!!

We planned on going to a party with some other people from Jen's playgroup that was starting at 6:00pm. Jen had to work until 5:00 so I figure she won't get home until 6:00 since she almost never gets home on time. I thought an hour to get stuff together and kids ready would give me more than enough time since I get home at 5:00. NOPE. I get stuck in a meeting at work (you know the 3 hour meeting where no much gets done) and don't leave until 5:00pm. Crap. So I come home to find that mom has put the kids in their costumes for their photo op and so they are ready for the party. It wasn't until then that I noticed that William's costume was actually made of quality material and real thick, almost like a kiddie Cardhart. He had jeans and a shirt underneath but it wasn't that cold outside. I decided that if he started to look too hot that I would just strip off the jeans and shirt and let him wear the costume sans clothes. Andrew actually liked wearing his costume this year but not so much for the head gear. So I am scrambling to get myself and kids ready. Jen comes home around 5:45 and she is running around trying to get stuff done and packed up too. I can already see it's going to be a stressful night. It's not supposed to be.... it's freakin' Halloween. So everything packed up we leave around 6:00 and drive to her friends house. We walk up and there are kids everywhere, running all over the place. I know a few of the mother's (kinda) but have no idea who any one else is so it's a little awkward for me. Jen and I get something to eat and decided it was pointless to try and feed the boys since they are downstairs where the chanting has begun for the "lord of the flies" group down there. There are a couple of little girls in that group that are holy terror personified. Little alpha females. I would love to have a little girl, but I see this and THANK GOD that I have all boys. Finally someone says "we start to trick or treat in 5 minutes". So 15 minutes later with the majority of the little darlings running all over the driveway they try and get a photo with all the kids, all I can say is good luck to that. So more farting around with trying to get kids and parents together I am ready to take off with my boys and do our own thing, but decided to try and stay with the group. So we finally unleash about 20 kids on the blackhawk neighborhood. God have mercy on their souls. The kids run from house to house with the little alpha females leading the pack. Some parents try to slow them down, but it didn't work that well. William was kinda keeping up with the group, but started to fade back. I couldn't tell if he was getting tired because of all the layers of clothes or he just wanted to do things at his own pace. William would actually wait for his turn rather than push his way forward like most of the other kids which made him a little slower than the others. Jen stayed with William while I brought up the rear with Andrew. Him and I would hit a house every once in a while, but he got more of a kick out of just walking around than actually trick or treating, but he walked the whole time. He was fascinated by all of the decorations on the houses. So after half an hour or so we head back to the house for more playtime, but I tell Jen we need to take off. We head out and stop by my brother's house for a quick visit and to play with the new puppy since he is just around the corner. Then we decided to run over to one of Jen's co-workers houses to see his Halloween display since he goes all out, and he really did again this year. This is the same guy that has Disney in every square inch of his house too. He gets the Styrofoam pumpkins and carves them with images so they can be reused every year. He had about 25 on display in front of the garage door and probably another 10 around the front yard. So another quick visit there and we head out to the in-law's house. We get there for another visit and for snackage for the boys since they hadn't eaten anything all night. So finally we head home around 10:00 get the boys to bed and collapse ourselves.

THAT'S IT I have had enough... Next year we stay home. If people want to visit they can come to our house and I am going to take the boys at their own pace in our neighborhood. The last thing I want is for this fun holiday to be stressful for everyone like other holidays. It's supposed to be fun for cripes sake.